Written By Amari
May 13, 2020, 3:32 p.m.(4/14/1013 AR)
It must certainly be spring. Many are now marrying for love or duty, or a shade of something in between. Of course, the perennial argument has sprung up again about which is better but like an ephemeral first bloom when the trees finally grow out their canopy of leaves above, it will wither away until next year. There are always greater problems and deeper concerns looming.
I'm entirely more excited about the Artshall Spring Livestock Sale. I found the most adorable piglet in Oakhaven during a recent visit. Should Snortlepuff not be sold, I think I may keep him here in Arx with me. He could eat kitchen scraps for Marie. He'll probably only weigh three hundred pounds or so when he's fully grown, so it should be fine.
I'm entirely more excited about the Artshall Spring Livestock Sale. I found the most adorable piglet in Oakhaven during a recent visit. Should Snortlepuff not be sold, I think I may keep him here in Arx with me. He could eat kitchen scraps for Marie. He'll probably only weigh three hundred pounds or so when he's fully grown, so it should be fine.
Written By Shard
May 13, 2020, 3:20 p.m.(4/14/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Rysen
I don't know you at all, but in your case you're presenting yourself as a /whiny/ asshole. Yeah, I'm not a charmer. So why is it that I'm having to point out to someone like you that the rules of the nobility, which nobles came up with at some point in the past, say that if you're throwing shit at each other you need to stop throwing shit, get Champions, have a duel, and then let it go.
I got /into/ a verbal shit flinging contest with Alecstazi a few years ago, and I /did/ challenge him over it. We didn't even end up needing the duel, because we communicated and worked it out in private like vaguely reasonable people. And I still think he's an asshole, and he probably still thinks /I'm/ an asshole, and I bet we could start up a hell of a fucking fight right now if we wanted to. But you know what? He has principles, even if I really hate some of them. He wasn't petty. I wouldn't really say he was any meaner than a lot of people I've had arguments with, and other people have certainly been nastier than he was. And he wasn't even arrogant either once I realized where he was coming from.
I don't know the details of what's going on between the two of you and I really don't care. I also don't have any idea why you're bringing things up that are completely unrelated, such as what you're doing or what's happened to you. I'm sure Alecstazi is also doing stuff, and I'm sure I don't really care about that either.
The point is, you're not supposed to still be going off and insulting him in your white journal, where anyone can read it. The purpose of duels is for nobles to work things out without starting wars, particularly wars over extremely stupid things. I guess the purpose is also to have duels over extremely stupid things because nobles get bored, but officially the first reason. And if /I/ can manage that, so can you.
I got /into/ a verbal shit flinging contest with Alecstazi a few years ago, and I /did/ challenge him over it. We didn't even end up needing the duel, because we communicated and worked it out in private like vaguely reasonable people. And I still think he's an asshole, and he probably still thinks /I'm/ an asshole, and I bet we could start up a hell of a fucking fight right now if we wanted to. But you know what? He has principles, even if I really hate some of them. He wasn't petty. I wouldn't really say he was any meaner than a lot of people I've had arguments with, and other people have certainly been nastier than he was. And he wasn't even arrogant either once I realized where he was coming from.
I don't know the details of what's going on between the two of you and I really don't care. I also don't have any idea why you're bringing things up that are completely unrelated, such as what you're doing or what's happened to you. I'm sure Alecstazi is also doing stuff, and I'm sure I don't really care about that either.
The point is, you're not supposed to still be going off and insulting him in your white journal, where anyone can read it. The purpose of duels is for nobles to work things out without starting wars, particularly wars over extremely stupid things. I guess the purpose is also to have duels over extremely stupid things because nobles get bored, but officially the first reason. And if /I/ can manage that, so can you.
Written By Eirene
May 13, 2020, 11:05 a.m.(4/14/1013 AR)
I realized I forgot to write about Alec and Bri's wedding. It was a fun time. My children threw snowballs at the Royal Kids, I threw Snowballs at my fiance, and a Thraxian prince who shall remain nameless (although he's been called out in other journals) threw a sword at the bride's brother on accident.
You know that old adage about someone yelling "Is there a doctor in the house?"
Yeah, that. I had no less than 3 people calling my name. I got blood on my dress. THAT is why I always wear treated leather. Blood comes out so much quicker...
You know that old adage about someone yelling "Is there a doctor in the house?"
Yeah, that. I had no less than 3 people calling my name. I got blood on my dress. THAT is why I always wear treated leather. Blood comes out so much quicker...
Written By Eirene
May 13, 2020, 10:24 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Despite being engaged to Lord Commander Mihaly, nothing is going to change in my devotion to protecting the Compact from harm and outside (and sometimes inside) forces. This time it's fighting an army of powerful shavs who happened to hurt some of my friends, the tribe of Ravens.
I try to remain dispassionate about such things but let's face it. I love my job and doing what I do. Thousands of men and women are alive today because of what I did during the Siege of Arx and the pushes against Brand. That's not a humblebrag (maybe it is) just truth. And soon I go to do the same, defend those at their weakest moments on the battlefield so they can continue to fight, defend, and continue to live.
He knows my love of duty and he has his own; perhaps that's why we're so pleased with this match between us. In fact, he's volunteered as well so we can have the joy of worrying about one another on a battlefield. Good times ahead, never had that fear before. Lagoma grant me the grace to handle all these fucking changes well.
I try to remain dispassionate about such things but let's face it. I love my job and doing what I do. Thousands of men and women are alive today because of what I did during the Siege of Arx and the pushes against Brand. That's not a humblebrag (maybe it is) just truth. And soon I go to do the same, defend those at their weakest moments on the battlefield so they can continue to fight, defend, and continue to live.
He knows my love of duty and he has his own; perhaps that's why we're so pleased with this match between us. In fact, he's volunteered as well so we can have the joy of worrying about one another on a battlefield. Good times ahead, never had that fear before. Lagoma grant me the grace to handle all these fucking changes well.
Written By Aleksei
May 13, 2020, 10:19 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
You called for Champions! Why are people still arguing!
Nobles are terrible at everything.
Nobles are terrible at everything.
Written By Eirene
May 13, 2020, 10:19 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Poppy
Poppy recently wrote about a friend being gravely wounded and the need for the city's finest healers to tend to said friend, but then was disappointed in how said friend carried on after her life was saved.
As a healer, you never want to see your work undone. You put a lot of time and effort into your training. You worked hard to save that life. But a healer must be dispassionate. We must never be too attached to our patients because there's always the chance you're not good enough or they're too far gone. Even when our patients are our friends.
And when they decide to live their life as they see fit? We should celebrate it. You gave them this gift of ongoing life. You stopped them from meeting the Queen of Endings and extended this turn on the Wheel a little longer. Yes, it's annoying to know they're not taking your admonishes seriously (stop breaking your sutures, damn you) but it's also something to be proud of. They are choosing to let their life be lived, not be defined by their wounds and injuries and holding back. And that's in part because of your medical skills.
That said, I'm pleased Poppy's friend is recuperating. *There was an additional comment here which has been crossed out repeatedly per the Lady's request*
As a healer, you never want to see your work undone. You put a lot of time and effort into your training. You worked hard to save that life. But a healer must be dispassionate. We must never be too attached to our patients because there's always the chance you're not good enough or they're too far gone. Even when our patients are our friends.
And when they decide to live their life as they see fit? We should celebrate it. You gave them this gift of ongoing life. You stopped them from meeting the Queen of Endings and extended this turn on the Wheel a little longer. Yes, it's annoying to know they're not taking your admonishes seriously (stop breaking your sutures, damn you) but it's also something to be proud of. They are choosing to let their life be lived, not be defined by their wounds and injuries and holding back. And that's in part because of your medical skills.
That said, I'm pleased Poppy's friend is recuperating. *There was an additional comment here which has been crossed out repeatedly per the Lady's request*
Written By Lucita
May 13, 2020, 9:32 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Amari
We had such a nice time sharing an evening avoiding conversations about bickering, doom and gloom, having a few laughs, speaking realistically about social niceties, expectatons and the avoidance of disappointments. The wine was good, the mood was good, and the ambience in the Black Fox made it all the better.
Written By Archeron
May 13, 2020, 7:43 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Love and noble marriage? It is a perk, a luxury. Not one I would encourage any in Tyde to expect for some generations - our numbers are too few for us to be able to waste matches on such frivolity.
Love of a type can emerge within normal political matches, certainly there is little virtue in not being accommodating to the needs of your partner, in not being kind. A political match is no excuse to be an ass. I am lucky in my match - for it brings Tyde close to a fine house in Acheron, it brings me a partner with whom I get on, children to continue our line.
Love of a type can emerge within normal political matches, certainly there is little virtue in not being accommodating to the needs of your partner, in not being kind. A political match is no excuse to be an ass. I am lucky in my match - for it brings Tyde close to a fine house in Acheron, it brings me a partner with whom I get on, children to continue our line.
Written By Mabelle
May 13, 2020, 4:22 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Shae
I woke up today to find the most adorable dog outside my chamber's door.
A white fluff with a black mask on her eyes. She is HUGE. And so shy.
A brief investigation revealed she was a gift from my cousins, Baron and Baroness Fortier, and that her name is TAFFY.
So Perfect.
I love her! Best Birthday Gift!
A white fluff with a black mask on her eyes. She is HUGE. And so shy.
A brief investigation revealed she was a gift from my cousins, Baron and Baroness Fortier, and that her name is TAFFY.
So Perfect.
I love her! Best Birthday Gift!
Written By Bellamy
May 13, 2020, 3:44 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Riagnon
Oh, rest assured, that has the oldest and most dapper of all the worms Sir Baywormther will be involved! He will be leaving behind his squire, however, to take up the mantle of Knight of the Red Wrigglers in the composting bin.
Written By Mikani
May 13, 2020, 3:43 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
A year ago today, a little man came into my life and made me a mother. My whole world changed. Lord Nakoa Crovane.... Happy Birthday! I am proud to call myself your mother and cannot wait to see what your future holds for you.
Written By Nurie
May 13, 2020, 2:33 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Choosing to set aside one's desires for the greater good of the family, or choosing to flout that and go one's own way both have consequences, and they're not always wonderful. Be it in marriage, profession, or any number of things. Bringing up children in an atmosphere of turmoil and upset doesn't just happen in households where the spouses never liked each other; it can happen with people who have, or did have, great passion for each other. I think it is perhaps only human to not want to be married to someone that loathes you, so it seems quite natural that even a political arrangement might have some care to ensure there is at least a small chance of people being compatible. If someone has also found happiness, then so much the better, let them enjoy that season in their life while they can.
If one has happiness in their arrangement, however, whatever that may be, perhaps it's better to be grateful for that, since there are many who do not have it in theirs. There's always going to be someone who looks down their nose at anything. If stung pride that everyone doesn't share your joy distracts you from the happiness that you have in your love or companionship, then that's a very sorrowful choice, but really no one's fault than your own.
If one has happiness in their arrangement, however, whatever that may be, perhaps it's better to be grateful for that, since there are many who do not have it in theirs. There's always going to be someone who looks down their nose at anything. If stung pride that everyone doesn't share your joy distracts you from the happiness that you have in your love or companionship, then that's a very sorrowful choice, but really no one's fault than your own.
Written By Insaya
May 13, 2020, 1:58 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Ezra
He has a different way of living his life than most. People make him uncomfortable en masse, and I think I understand why -- at least in part. Even if not, I respect it. We have adopted opposite strategies to cope with people and their often unknowable workings.
Written By Insaya
May 13, 2020, 1:42 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
As I sat working on case notes on a hillock outside the city, a man I spoke with raised the very good point that if I think a skill might benefit my work, then I should pursue it. To that end, I am going to need a tutor, because I don't think my stick-figure scribbles in the margins of my reports are going to instill confidence in my ability to see, and retain detail. Tomorrow I will do and ask at the Shrine of Jayus.
Written By Drake
May 13, 2020, 1:38 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
I have to admit, on a personal level - I have never really had much of a head for poetry.
I try, but the deeper symbolism always seems to elude me.
I try, but the deeper symbolism always seems to elude me.
Written By Bedivere
May 13, 2020, 12:11 a.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Thank you to Goodwoman Natalia Whisper -- my wonderful protege -- for her hardworking help with gathering up military resources, kindly gifting me with Saikland wine and a fine coat from Whispering Words, and putting up with surprise parties, too! Yes, I still owe you a future meeting. Thank you to the wonderful guests who showed up from House Whitehawk and Academy of War, too!
Written By Rysen
May 12, 2020, 11:52 p.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Shard
I'm not disagreeing with your assessment of Lord Alecstazi here, but you're not exactly a charmer, and his responses are far more embarrassing than I could have dreamed.
I leave for the Northlands to fight the Ravens, and writing about my family helps keep me focused. If you don't want to read it, don't. One thing I learned about myself when I was with Lord Ian and Lady Brianna in captivity is that I am not a man without fear. I must simply do what I can to face it.
I leave for the Northlands to fight the Ravens, and writing about my family helps keep me focused. If you don't want to read it, don't. One thing I learned about myself when I was with Lord Ian and Lady Brianna in captivity is that I am not a man without fear. I must simply do what I can to face it.
Written By Arik
May 12, 2020, 11:22 p.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
On the matter of love and marriage...
The argument over love matches and loving a spouse and the nature of marrying for duty has been written about in the whites for generations. It will be argued for generations more. I am not a poet nor a married man but I am the Sword of Whitehold so mayhap pay heed to my views on the matter of duty and honor.
Amongst the Peerage a match is deemed beneficial either because it strengthens the relations between houses, resolves a conflict, opens new avenues of development, or whatever else is desirable in the political climes of the day. You hear stories of nobles that do not like their match and abdicate their title to be commoners able to do as they wish or fight the pairing with inventive means.
What do we tell these stubborn and resistant Peers? Marry for duty, find common ground, fulfill your obligations, and take a lover if that is what is lacking. We tell them to find affection or mutual respect. We tell them to make peace and seek their desires elsewhere. Thus we can conclude that nurturing a fondness or affection is expected because tumultuous marriages lead to shameful divorce. It is expected, by duty, to find a fondness in your spouse or at the very least a compatibility.
A love match is simple. In lieu of framing your mind to accept the person you are to marry for duty, instead, you twist your duty to fit your ardent desire.
The noble privileges come with the noble duty. Circumvent, twist, shirk, or abdicated your duty and weaken your claim to noble privilege. It is the nature of our position and our purpose.
The argument over love matches and loving a spouse and the nature of marrying for duty has been written about in the whites for generations. It will be argued for generations more. I am not a poet nor a married man but I am the Sword of Whitehold so mayhap pay heed to my views on the matter of duty and honor.
Amongst the Peerage a match is deemed beneficial either because it strengthens the relations between houses, resolves a conflict, opens new avenues of development, or whatever else is desirable in the political climes of the day. You hear stories of nobles that do not like their match and abdicate their title to be commoners able to do as they wish or fight the pairing with inventive means.
What do we tell these stubborn and resistant Peers? Marry for duty, find common ground, fulfill your obligations, and take a lover if that is what is lacking. We tell them to find affection or mutual respect. We tell them to make peace and seek their desires elsewhere. Thus we can conclude that nurturing a fondness or affection is expected because tumultuous marriages lead to shameful divorce. It is expected, by duty, to find a fondness in your spouse or at the very least a compatibility.
A love match is simple. In lieu of framing your mind to accept the person you are to marry for duty, instead, you twist your duty to fit your ardent desire.
The noble privileges come with the noble duty. Circumvent, twist, shirk, or abdicated your duty and weaken your claim to noble privilege. It is the nature of our position and our purpose.
Written By Teagan
May 12, 2020, 11:03 p.m.(4/13/1013 AR)
A man knows he is losing a battle (of words) when he can no longer support his arguments on the topic alone and must begin attacking his opponent through other avenues.
If the topic of discussion is, for example, one's ability to fight: keep the topic on one's ability to fight. Do not suddenly begin to rant on at length about one's fashion sense.
It's a distraction and underlines that your stance is weak and you damn well know it.
If the topic of discussion is, for example, one's ability to fight: keep the topic on one's ability to fight. Do not suddenly begin to rant on at length about one's fashion sense.
It's a distraction and underlines that your stance is weak and you damn well know it.
Written By Mia
May 12, 2020, 9:56 p.m.(4/12/1013 AR)
Relationship Note on Tikva
I suspect that you and I may be looking at two very different pieces of paper, Your Highness.
Please note that the scholars may take some time preparing your journal for others to read.